i know, it's annoying when you have to be in a game with people who have things other than warlight going on in their lives and insist upon balancing the time commitments for all those things as part of what one would assume to be a more varied existence, right? . . . . . . it leaves some feeling inadequate in comparison, one would imagine ;)
Anyways, I mostly play fast, but some tough games I will take my time to think, and if the opponent is rude about it, it's not gonna make me play faster I guarantee it. If you have 3 days for booting, then you have 3 days to play. If you want faster games play RT.
But sometimes (even though I don't have a life) I wait to take my turns anyway. As long as I'm not about to get booted and as long as I'm not the sole player the others are waiting on, I could delay for a couple days sometimes.